Arguments create problems in a relationship. During an argument, blame is placed on someone and become the center of the argument.
This leads to anger and unhappiness, due to unkind words said that cause hurtful feelings.
Some Causes of Arguments
There is not enough time spent together
Not enough money to cover cost of living expenses
The other person is not fulfilling his or her responsibilities
To Avoid Arguments from Destroying a Relationship
Discussions and working together to create plans to prevent problems from occurring
If an unforeseen problem occurs, work together to find a solution to solve it
Create a budget to handle financial expenses
Number one priority is spending quality time together
LOYALTY is the key to strengthening a relationship
Unhappiness in a relationship creates a void space that needs fulfillment. The mind will look for ways to fulfill that space. Within the nature of every person is a desire to feel appreciated, to feel needed, and to be loved. Some arguments in a relationship are caused because of unhappiness.
__ Ellen J. Barrier
You can read Life Stories by Ellen J. Barrier @ http://visitourlives.blogspot.com/2014/06/where-did-i-go-wrong.html