The Adult with Childish Behavior

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The Adult with Childish Behavior Never Grow Up

“When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things.” 1 Corinthians 13:11

Unfortunately, we live in a world that is constructed with the behavior of some childish adults that have been placed in leadership positions. Such people are allowed to operate things that depend upon the survival of our lives. This is a serious problem worldwide. There is a scripture that says, “Give us help from trouble: for vain is the help of man.” Psalm 60:11
Change in adults with childish behavior never comes, because such people refuse to follow instructions. Therefore, they refuse to change their childish ways. They will never grow up.
Why is the world in such disastrous condition? Childish adult leadership is the reason.
1. Childish adult parents
2. Childish adult bosses
The childish adult parent is not the grown-up in the family. Their behavior, is childish. Their offspring have no adult guidance. Therefore, they mimic the behavior of their parents. They have no sense of knowing what is right. Their mistakes in life cause harm to themselves and to others.

In the work place, a childish adult boss, is the person, who cannot control the workers. Such person cause problems that leads to unhappiness and disasters, because they are unqualified to do their job. They team up with some of the workers and become friends. The workers have no respect for them, because they are one of them. No one listen to the childish adult boss.

The childish adult in a leadership position, cannot lead the people. Instead, they follow the people that makes them feel comfortable. They are unable to make rational decisions.

It is up to the people who have put away their childish behavior, to take on the role of leadership positions, to make a better and peaceful world.

Written by: Ellen J. Barrier

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Persistency In Prayer Brings About Positive Change

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Praying on a daily basis rewards us with positive changes in our life. We are able to express our personal needs to God. Releasing our emotions frees our mind, and builds characteristic traits, that are favorable and honorable with God and Man.
Those who pray daily, increase understanding to know the importance of examining their behavior pattern toward others.
Have a willingness to offer an apology when an error on their part was made that offended or caused harm to someone.
Never fail to immediately ask forgiveness, when it is due to someone because of a wrongful act that was committed whether it was done intentional or unintentional.
Persistency in prayer makes a weak man strong.
Persistency in prayer, makes a boy a man, when he needs to be strong.
Persistency in prayer, allows a woman the ability to become a much stronger woman to accomplish her goals, by accepting the role of many others.
Persistency in prayer help girls to embrace the legacy of strong women and will build one for themselves that are stronger.
It is the persistency in prayer that makes a family stronger.
Through the persistency in prayer, we develop the desire to treat others the way we would like for them to treat us. It begins in our home.
Pray Without Ceasing
1 Thessalonians 5:17
Written by Ellen J. Barrier

I Love You Forever

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I Love You Forever

My love for you is stronger than any problem could ever be.

As long as you are here beside me;

nothing else will matter to me.

We will always be together; just you and me forever__

Your love, I hold within my heart;

each heart beat strengthen it even more.

As each day pass, my love for you,

grows stronger than the day before.

Love has joined our hearts together.

Just You & Me Forever

__ Ellen J. Barrier

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People Who Refuse to Commit 100% in a Relationship

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If a person is not willing to give 100% of their Love in a relationship, what percentage of their Love is given to someone else?

In the story below the person who was giving less than 100% of her Love in her relationship, was found to have been giving the rest of her Love to another individual.  When her mate found out about her affair, the results were disastrous.

Starting a Relationship under False Pretenses Is Poor Judgment

To start a relationship under false pretenses, will open a pathway for trouble.

A relationship that is built upon lies and secrets cannot survive.

The truth will certainly be revealed. What goes on in the dark eventually comes to the light. Therefore, when the truth is revealed, the guilty will suffer the consequences.


On this particular night, the woman who shared her Love with another man was caught in the act of sharing the bed that she slept in with her husband, performing a sexual act with another man. The husband arrived home from work at a time of which his wife was not expecting him. When he entered their bedroom and saw the scene of his wife and another man, he became outraged. He went into their kitchen, and after having several drinks of alcoholic beverages, he confronted her: after a long argument, he took a shotgun from a closet, and shot her in the head. She died from her wound.

Rage is uncontrolled violent anger such as a violent storm that unleashes evil on its victim. There is no escaping it. No one knows how another person will behave mentally, in such situation. We can only hope that God will give us strength to walk away, and leave the battle in his hands, if we should encounter such behavior in our presence as the man in this situation experience.

Written By Ellen J. Barrier

Author of The Price We Must Pay For Our Father’s Sins

Building Upon the Foundation of Trust

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Building Upon the Foundation of Trust

Without trust, relationships become weak and crumble. Trust is the foundation that every successful relationship is built upon. When trust is the foundation of a relationship, it is allowed to grow and become stronger. Trust is the foundation for a strong and successful relationship, it is accomplished through respect for ourselves and for others. Visit Ellen J. Barrier website @


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The Respect We Receives From Others Is Measured by the Respect We Give to Others

When we give to others the same respect we would want to receive from them, we can establish peace within our being, and therefore, pursue a peaceful relationship with others.  No one wants to be disrespected. The angry and hostile individuals are those who are without peace within themselves. And search for ways to satisfy their unhappiness by showing disrespect for others.

If each individual would believe that we are inseparable, a people created by God can form a perfect union established upon the principles of freedom, equality, justice, and humanity, we can live peacefully in a democracy.

A world where children can grow up without the fear of violence

People can feel safe in public places

Domestic violence in relationships would be unheard of

The threat of wars would not exist among nations

A person accused of having committed an offense, would be considered to be innocent until proven guilty

Each individual would be judged by his own actions

Carefully choosing words to avoid disrespect for others would be said or published

An Example of Respect

Police Officer Returned Missing Item and issued an Apology

As I stated, no one wants to be disrespected as was in the case of a filed stolen item reported to the police department from my residence. When the officer took the report regarding the item that was taken from my residence, he did not believe it had been stolen.

Shortly after having left my residence after filing the information on the stole item, I reported; the police officer returned with the stolen item, and issued a heartfelt apology for not believing the item had been stolen.  He said he found the item at the scene of an accident that the robbers were involved in,

His apology was deeply appreciated.  Being in a position of authority, he could have chosen to not return the item and not issue an apology.  Rather, he chose to give respect to others.

Respect is earned by the individual who treat others the way he or she would want to be treated.

“Do unto others as you would have them to do unto you.” King James Bible Quote by Jesus

“We are not defined by belief or by faith nor religion. We are the family of God.”

Written by__ Ellen J. Barrier

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