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People Who Refuse to Commit 100% in a Relationship

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If a person is not willing to give 100% of their Love in a relationship, what percentage of their Love is given to someone else?

In the story below the person who was giving less than 100% of her Love in her relationship, was found to have been giving the rest of her Love to another individual.  When her mate found out about her affair, the results were disastrous.

Starting a Relationship under False Pretenses Is Poor Judgment

To start a relationship under false pretenses, will open a pathway for trouble.

A relationship that is built upon lies and secrets cannot survive.

The truth will certainly be revealed. What goes on in the dark eventually comes to the light. Therefore, when the truth is revealed, the guilty will suffer the consequences.

Story

On this particular night, the woman who shared her Love with another man was caught in the act of sharing the bed that she slept in with her husband, performing a sexual act with another man. The husband arrived home from work at a time of which his wife was not expecting him. When he entered their bedroom and saw the scene of his wife and another man, he became outraged. He went into their kitchen, and after having several drinks of alcoholic beverages, he confronted her: after a long argument, he took a shotgun from a closet, and shot her in the head. She died from her wound.

Rage is uncontrolled violent anger such as a violent storm that unleashes evil on its victim. There is no escaping it. No one knows how another person will behave mentally, in such situation. We can only hope that God will give us strength to walk away, and leave the battle in his hands, if we should encounter such behavior in our presence as the man in this situation experience.

Written By Ellen J. Barrier

Author of The Price We Must Pay For Our Father’s Sins

Leadership

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The Results of Poor Leadership

 

The results of poor leadership is a broken and corrupt society that exist worldwide by the violence we see that is played out on the streets and in public places. Corrupt leaders attract people like themselves that breed violence.

Poor leadership has been revealed in the homes and in shelters where children are exposed to violence. Many of these children who came from broken homes have not found a safe haven; but instead, have been sexually abused, and targeted for further violence against them.

Government has failed many, because some elected officials who have been chosen to work for all of the people to provide the needed resources in poor neighborhoods, have not carried out their promises.  And those who created the laws of the land have not fought for the poor to be treated equally fair. Many elected officials have broken the laws they created. The Justice System has become weaken because of poor leadership and corruption by certain individuals who were chosen to uphold the laws, who themselves broke them.

Failure to lead with honesty and respect for others, creates and atmosphere of mistrust.

Among those who view the world through the eyes of politics and religion, we find bias and prejudice treatment used against certain individuals. Because of such people beliefs, they psychologically place others in classifications based on financial status, locations, looks and popularity. They set in judgmental positions and outcast certain individuals, who they perceive are different from them, and have no place in society for equal justice.

From such people come leaders in our communities, among them are judges and the jury and those who are religious leaders, school and college leaders, law enforcement officials and others. The laws of the land are as strong as the character of those who are in a position to uphold them.

If justice fails in the courtrooms, it will not prevail in society.

When people feel they have been treated as an outcast, because of unfairness, they feel they were cheated out of their God-given rights that all men and women were created equal. They feel that the same laws should apply to all people. They feel that Liberty and Justice should apply to every boy, and to every girl, and to every man, and to every women, regardless of financial status, location, looks or popularity.

If a person feel he or she is worthless by the laws of the land, they will eventually lose hope.

When hope is gone, the reason to care is replaced with the demon of hate, leaving such individuals with a feeling of no remorse, and the desire to destroy. In the path of hate is death and destruction. The fury of such an evil spirit will cause innocent people to suffer as a result of violent behavior.

The leader who prays to God for strength to treat those who follow with fairness will make a difference. Through prayers wisdom is obtained and knowledge is gained, and applied with understanding to know that change comes, when every person is adequately benefited.

A person does not have to be religious to pray: Knowing that someone is listening who has the power to guide you out of darkness into light, is all that is required. I found Contentment when I prayed.

I would rather be on the team of the leader who prays to God for wisdom to guide the followers, than to be on the team of the leader, who leads without prayer.

I thank God for his Love for me, and for each choice I made.

I chose Love over hate.

I chose forgiveness over grudges.

I chose peace over war.

I chose thankfulness over complaints.

I give thanks to God for the contentment I found within me.

I now live my life with the satisfaction of my choices.

When I chose contentment

I chose happiness

 

written by Ellen J. Barrier

 

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God Condemns Violence

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God condemns violence

“The man who shows great respect for his mother, and the women in his life; will have respect for those he meets.”
― Ellen J. Barrier

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Women who Commit Murder, Lies, and Steal Children

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A Slain Pregnant Woman and Her 3 Children Were Murdered the Killer is a 24-Year-Old Woman

Motive:  To pass the slain woman’ seven- month –old dead fetus off as her child

Women who Commit Murder, Lies, and Steal Children

Story: The 24-year-old woman who committed the murders were said to have been a ’ family friend’ who murdered the woman and removed the unborn child from her uterus with a sharp object that is believed to have been scissors.  After having removed the dead fetus, she summoned law enforcement stating she had gone into labor.  The fetus was taken to the hospital.

The autopsy revealed signs of trauma. The 24-year-old woman pretended to be the mother of the fetus but, refused to allow the hospital to examine her. Yet, she signed an affidavit for the funeral home, stating the child was hers.  She said the child was born after she had consensual sex. She later changed her story and said she was sexually assaulted.

The 24-year-old woman placed the bodies of the slain woman’ children ages 7, 2 and 1 in a washer and dryer. She confessed to murdering the children. The autopsy was inconclusive as to how the fetus died. This act was called a “grisly attack.”

Some women are obsessed with becoming mothers and have been known to steal other women children and pass them off as their own.  And there are women who harm mothers and steal their children or abduct children for other purposes.  This is selfish, uncaring and an evil thing to do to a mother who has sacrificed her body to give life to her offspring.

written by Ellen J. Barrier

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